Did you ring in the New Year with champagne, clappers, fireworks and a kiss at midnight or at home, comfy in your jammies, watching the ball drop? No matter how you spent the last night of 2012 I’m willing to wager that you spent some energy visualizing what you would like to accomplish for 2013: your New Year’s Resolution.
Wait! Don’t Tell Me!
In fact, don’t tell anyone. Listen to Derek Sivers‘ wise words about why you shouldn’t tell others your goals.
“Telling someone your goals makes them less likely to happen,” Sivers explains in his TED talk “Keep Your Goals To Yourself.” If you don’t share your goal, you won’t receive that feel-good affirmation. You’ve still got that wonderful nagging that there’s still work to do. So hush up and make it happen this year.
New Year’s Eve Traditions
So instead of sharing your resolution, what are your New Year’s Eve Traditions? So much can happen in a year. How do you keep a record of all the wonderful things that have occurred in this last year of your life?
We have a memory jar.
The idea for a Memory Jar came a la Pinterest. Only the original pinner wrote the cute sayings her child had said throughout the year and would read them when she was feeling down. My variation is to jot down notes of important dates, milestones or moments that we want to remember and then read them on New Year’s Eve with hubby and a little bubbly.
Here are some highlights:
A token to remember our Santa Fe Surprise Adventure.
2012 was filled with laughter. The professional kind. We were fortunate to see the following comedians: Jerry Seinfeld, Lewis Black, Bill Engvall, Kathleen Madigan, Bobcat Goldthwait, Dana Carvey, Kevin Nealon and Anjelah Johnson.
We discovered 10 Reasons To Go To Our Local Farmer’s Market
The first time I went to Changing Hands Bookstore it was to escape a haboob. The second time was to meet Luis Alberto Urrea, author of the Hummingbird’s Daughter. Funny story about that day. I was very excited about meeting one of my favorite authors but I never did ask him anything. Advice. About his book. How could I become a better writer? (I did later send him a tweet and he responded!) In part it was nerves, but mostly it was because of something else that happened that day.
I also met poet and now good friend, Cynthia Schwartzberg Edlow, that day. As we stood in line to have Luis Urrea sign our books, we struck up a conversation as if though we had already been friends. Later in 2012, Cynthia encouraged me, as did “the man to [her] right” (check her blog to get the reference), to become a better me.
Time For Accolades
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The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2012 annual report for this blog and shared neat-o facts with me. Things like:
4,329 films were submitted to the 2012 Cannes Film Festival. This blog had 27,000 views in 2012. If each view were a film, this blog would power 6 Film Festivals. Click here to see the complete report.
However, none of those factoids would be possible without you. So, thanks to you, dear reader. I’m wishing you a wonderful 2013 wherein you can find the determination to go after your goals, the kindness you owe yourself when you don’t succeed at the first attempt and a touch of crazy to keep trying until you succeed.
Thanks to Runningintolife.com for this wonderful photo.